Alyson Lanier

Guide, Mentor, Teacher;

on all things Relationship 

Your health and wellbeing are dependent on three things:

Your relationship with yourself.

Your relationship with others.
Your relationship with the larger world/spirit.

Life is all about relationships.
As much as we try, we can’t escape the impacts of them.
If you lean in and do the work needed, your relationships will transform your life.

With over 30 years of experience in psychology specializing in relationships and healthy attachment, and over 40 years relating to the unseen world, I work with people all over the world to heal intergenerational trauma, learn their unique configuration of wellness and health, and cultivate the relationships– day-world and  spiritual– they truly want.


YOU are the only person who can create the life relationships you most desire. Sometimes, you just need a little help along the way.  I help you cultivate the kind of relationships that matter most to your heart.  I help you come into your wholeness and your best relationship with yourself, your loved ones, and your unseen/spiritual world.  What’s that mean? it means that together we’ll:


  • Stop identifying with the hurt, the wounding, and the blame, and, start embracing your power and responsibility for the life you want
  • Heal yourself epigenitically, heal intergenerational trauma, and, your inherited burdens
  • Become your You-ist you, and feel deep relief at finally coming home
  • Feel confident and powerful within yourself
  • Create a life that lights you up and gives you freedom

I work remotely via Zoom, What’s App, Skype, or FaceTime. If we can make scheduling work, it doesn’t matter where in the world you are.

But how do you begin?

Just reach out. Seriously.  Whatever you really want to know you can learn by talking to me. Personally, I’m not a fan of reading tons of words on a website; I just want to know if the person I’m checking out can help me or not.

So hit the “contact me” button, send an email, and find out.